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CHILDREN:
THE BEST SUBJECTS
Multiple uses of Hypnotherapy!
Children often are marvellous subjects for hypnosis.
Once they have developed to the level where they can
have an adequate attention span they tend to be easily
hypnotizable. This may be due to the fact that much
of early childhood is spent in hypnosis. Children play
games that include deep involvement, which is a form
of hypnosis. They indulge in fantasies and pretend experiences,
which are forms of hypnosis.
Children are additionally benefited by the fact that
many inhibitions which commonly affect adults have not
yet developed. Children also have limited capacities
for critical judgment. Trust and positive rapport are
essential and bringing out these qualities can be difficult,
especially in cases where a child is presented by a
feared authority figure. Confidence must be earned.
Apprehensions must be allayed. Communication must be
established.
Applicable utilizations
Why would a child need or be benefited by hypnotherapy?
Like the famous answer to the question, "How do
I love thee?" let me count the ways! Certainly
among important usages must be the early control or
elimination of childish habits - bedwetting, nose-picking,
mannerisms and often attitudes. As children grow older
hypnosis can dramatically affect attention problems,
learning enhancement, study procedures, anxieties (whether
from home, school or other sources), self-esteem, motivation,
athletic performance, creativity, non-understood grief
(or loss or separation) - the list is virtually endless.
To a professional it is incredible the amount of psychological
damage that can be and is done to children by parents,
relatives, siblings, teachers or authority figures.
Much of it is well-meaning efforts intended to provide
direction and motivation, coming from a trusted source
who intends no harm.
However, children differ (just as adults do). Some are
introverts, some are extroverts; some come from homes
that offer praise and encouragement, others come from
environments where criticism and lack of recognition
are considered appropriate; some come from environments
of love, some come from environments of discord and
abuse. One of the greatest gifts a child can receive
is prolonged contact with an individual (whether teacher,
parent, older sibling, coach or counsellor) who can
and will offer sensitivity, understanding and appreciation
of value.
Children respond to comments by authority figures in
differing ways. A parent or teacher, on viewing a poor
report card, might comment: "You are going to be
the dumbest kid in the class all your life!" The
intent might well be to motivate the child to change
this detrimental distinction by trying harder. A self-assured
child might respond in that manner. Yet an insecure
child might well accept the statement literally as a
true prognostication and experience a psychological
inner flip which locks in place acceptance of the self
as unworthy, incapable and doomed to fulfill the stated
destiny.
The files of psychologists, psychiatrists, psychotherapists
and hypnotherapists are filled with cases of adult clients
who have sought therapy to get out from under the self
depreciating childhood imprints imposed by well-meaning
(and often not so well-meaning) guardians.
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