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FEARS
& PHOBIAS
You can set yourself free!
Among the primary reasons why people seek therapy is
the need to deal with fear reactions. The range of such
problems is extensive - from simple, annoying "hang-ups,"
to specific (or non-specific) fears which affect the
activities or enjoyment of life, to full-blown phobias
which may be a part of serious mental illness.
Under certain circumstances or in specific situations
virtually all people are subject to a variety of rational
or irrational apprehensions. Many of these originate
in childhood when undeveloped reasoning ability creates
in a young person a natural climate for developing fears
of the unknown. Fears can, of course, develop in adulthood
through traumatic experience, but most prove to have
originated in early, impressionable years.
It is interesting to note that fears seldom travel alone.
While one may be dominant and apparent, investigation
will usually reveal others which are associated and
interrelated.
Common problems
The usual apprehensions that may exist in relative degrees
of severity include fears of flying, high places, rejection,
failure (or even success), pain, exposure, poor performance
(sports, scholastic, job, theatrical, sexual), death,
the unknown, contamination, blood, animals (including
spiders, sharks, etc.), water, impending danger, darkness,
open spaces, closed spaces, loss of control and many
others.
Fears are not necessarily bad. They can be highly valuable
if they serve useful purposes, such as creating caution
in driving, locking doors, being prepared for emergencies.
But when a fear causes alteration of a normal lifestyle,
creating intense and irrational behaviours, becoming
a threat to a person's well-being, it merits attention.
Frequent occurrence is a strong warning signal that
needs to be heeded.
A "hang-up" becomes a fear when it becomes
noticeably disturbing and begins to affect behaviour.
A fear becomes a phobia when it reaches the point of
being triggered by factors which are irrational and
may be unknown, and when it is experienced so frequently
that it affects an individual's normal activities. Lack
of understanding of the repressed conflict which causes
the reaction they result in uncontrollable or unreasonable
behaviour.
Hypnotherapists specializing in such disorders have
claimed that the fear itself may not create the phobic
reaction. It may well be caused by what the fear represents
as an unknown danger.
Fears originating in adulthood may sometimes be caused
by chemical problems (hypoglycaemic reaction) or by
physiological reactions (indigestion assumed to be a
heart attack). The duration of the reaction under the
triggering circumstances may indicate whether the cause
is physiological or psychological. A psychological reaction,
since it anticipates the triggering episode, tends to
diminish once the situation is actually encountered.
Physiological reactions, caused by the event or activity
itself, tend to increase once the triggering situation
begins.
A key point is that a phobic person is threatened by
something that does not in reality present a life threat.
Yet the reaction is the same as it would be in a situation
of real danger. The fear generates more fear, and the
situation cannot be confronted in a calm state, so the
victim makes every effort to avoid it.
The advantage of hypnotherapy
Specific fears often emanate from apprehensions of impending
danger. Feelings of anxiety and panic tend to evolve
into forebodings of approaching disaster the source
of which is not understood. The fear of loss of control
is primitive and is likely to be a common element and
basic cause in all phobia cases. It is not uncommon
in relationship breakups.
The progressive development of fear and phobic reactions
often proceeds through four phases: Unrealistic self-statements
create a state of alarm; fear of the fear itself develops;
personal feelings and reason are rejected as the fear
escalates; avoidance begins of any person, place, thing
or situation which generates feelings of arousal or
anxiety.
In mild cases reprogramming through hypnotherapy can
prove effective. Hypnotic suggestion can replace catastrophic
thoughts with truthful statements explaining the nature
of the symptoms and the realization that the physical
sensations can cause no harm. Hypnosis can slow the
heartbeat, achieve a sense of balance, generate relaxation
through deep breathing and free the throat to swallow,
overcome sensations of temperature change and promote
clear-headedness.
In more severe cases, symptoms are usually apparent,
but true causes likely are unknown. The condition which
created the fear is a threat to the victim because it
is unresolved. Exposing the cause can diminish the anxiety
associated with the fear by taking it out of the unknown
so that rational suggestion can be used to alleviate
symptoms. Some causes apparently producing present symptoms,
however, may prove to be themselves symptoms of a yet
deeper cause.
Age regression can be a highly effective technique
for uncovering causes. It is one of the most beneficial
procedures available in the therapeutic arsenals of
hypnotherapy and psychotherapy.
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